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Sandi R.'s avatar

Such a tone of calm and peace in your post. And how awesome to appreciate the art of 'presence' from those you interact with.

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Stephanie Walsh's avatar

The pictures are beautiful!๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ Mike ?.... canโ€™t recall who your boss was.

Btw, did you hear if the hurricane that So California had, the size of Arizona. Itโ€™s been 84 years.... wind gusts up to 70 mph , we lost 7 trees. Letโ€™s hope we wonโ€™t have another for 84 years, the re are some things one wants to miss.

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Nancy Whiteman's avatar

Mike Etue, who unfortunately passed away about 9 years ago. Yes, I tracked the storm with interest. Our neighbor lost a beautiful jacaranda tree and our realtor had roof leaks. Sorry to hear about your trees!!!! But hopefully no damage to the house.

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Stephanie Walsh's avatar

Of course, how could I forget Mike Etue! Youโ€™re correct in the recollecting what was his intense listening capabilities.

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Thomas Hawker's avatar

Another great post Nancy....the home is absolutely stunning. I can still picture the before in my mind from previous posts, and the after from your current photos. I am not much of a patient person, however, as I get older I am realizing that life is too short, and not to sweat the small stuff. So whether it takes an hour, day, week, or longer. Tomorrow doesn't mean tomorrow, it is just sometime in the future. Yes, I know this sounds easier than I make it out to be, but at least I am going to keep trying because I know my patience will be tested as we too are getting close to the end of our renovation project in VRSA. End of October is what I am being told.....highly doubt it. Add two more months at least LOL.

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Jane Price's avatar

We have noticed the quality of presence that most Portuguese have when with or assisting you. Itโ€™s a true gift.

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Dante Langston's avatar

Interestingly observation about the singular focus of Portugal people. It blends with my โ€œbubble โ€œ theory about this culture, but thatโ€™s a whole Substack in and of itself. You have captained a lovely destination, to your beautiful new home, a journey worth sharing. Parabรฉns, Nancy

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MIke Johnston's avatar

There's a lot written these days about how multitasking is bad for your brain, doesn't work, etc. The antidote recommended is to focus on one task at a time. I think our Type A / overachieving / mindlessly urgent US culture could take a lesson from the Portuguese. Slow down. Do one thing. Be present. Really talk to the person you're interacting with. It seems that some of it has rubbed off on you, Nancy.

And of course.... the house looks wonderful. I hope it is a place where you and Denise create great memories for many years to come.

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Nancy Whiteman's avatar

And now that we have a guest room, you and Mary can stay here on your next visit.

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bob peckham's avatar

Parabens! ....and the Calma Calma Calma does pay off in the end! Lovely writeup of kudos to the beleaguered customer assistants of the world. And of course the place is stunning! Hope to run into you sometime when we're "down south"!

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Noblepower's avatar

Wow, the house looks amazing! All the time and frustrations of a renovation have paid off. :-)

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Krishna Martins's avatar

The house looks fabulous and those custom pieces appear not only chic, but inviting. I'm still in awe of your ability to have tolerated the process of remodeling here and the results show just how worthwhile it was. Thank you for sharing all of the joys and terrors of your home project with us.

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Lori's avatar

Beautiful! The furniture and the description of the service ethic here. ๐Ÿ˜Š. Glad that you are in!!

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HansiZhai's avatar

Still practising being present...

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Barbara's avatar

What a lovely home you two have created! Enjoy!

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Scott H-K's avatar

Your home is beautiful! Thank you for sharing it with us all. Here's to many wonderful memories there in the years to come.

And to your main point, yes the "presentness" is something to which we can all aspire.

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Barbara Wintroub's avatar

Your home is breathtakingly stunning

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Jon McClellan's avatar

Wonderful insight and perspective, Nanc. Being present. And thanks for the pictures - your home is wonderful.

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Marie B.'s avatar

What a great tribute to 'being present' thank you for sharing. So happy to know you are in your home and enjoying it. Congrats!

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Karen Tynan's avatar

Beautiful. May you both enjoy your new home and life in Portugal.

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