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Lucille W's avatar

Interesting question about visiting graves. I recently visited England where my grandmother is buried in a pretty little church yard in the south of England. I hadn't visited for over 20+ years. I couldn't find the grave stone but eventually realized it was the blackened one that was unreadable (until I rubbed hard with a rag). My 87 year Aunt and I returned with bucket of water, Fairy Liquid and a scrubbing brush and lo and behold we spruced her up. It was the least I could do after all the love and care she gave to us a children. Brought back lots of nice childhood memories.....thank you Nanny (as we called her) so glad I went.....

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Scott Snyder's avatar

My Mom always used to say, "If you buy me flowers after I'm dead, I will haunt you. If you want to buy me flowers, buy them for me now." That was my Mom. I loved my Mom. My Mom's ashes were set free in the Thousand Islands, into the St. Lawrence River, a place she loved, bordering Canada and northern New York State. And like my Mom, I would like for my ashes to travel the world, out into the Ocean, after I (well my body, this life) am gone. Key West is the place for my "next world" journey to begin, the Gulf Stream is the place for me. (All said, I appreciate others traditions. The world is richer. I am richer to learn and know about other people, other cultures.) Thank you for sharing Nancy.

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